The Continuing Saga of SPD and The Mutant

by Mandalyn on May 7, 2012

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It has been awhile since I have updated everyone on Wyatt and his struggle with his sensory processing disorder, and a lot has happened.

As for his speech, it really hasn’t improved that much.  Wyatt is now two years and seven months old, and he probably is at a twelve month level of speech.  The biggest improvement has been in his ability to mimic words.  He will say words after we say them, but he will not use them to communicate.   We force him to use words like “Chocolate” if he wants chocolate milk, as this is something he loves!  If he doesn’t say it, then he simply doesn’t get it.  However, he very rarely will just say it to request his favorite drink.  He knows lots of words, but he will not use them to communicate.  We do not know why he has no desire to communicate, and it is this stagnant behavior that has our occupational therapist recommending that he see a developmental pediatrician to rule out autism.

Making this appointment was so hard for me to do.  I am scared to know the results, and what if he is autistic?  Can he overcome this?  Will it impede on his ability to just be a happy little boy?  Will he be the victim of bullies, because he is just different?  All these questions are going through my head.  Of course I know I shouldn’t be worrying till we know for sure, but I can’t help thinking ahead.  Our appointment is in November (which is the earliest we can get in), so I have awhile to dwell.  It is my fervent hope he suddenly makes bounds of progress to eliminate the autism factor.

His other SPD issues are still a challenge.  He still only eats specific items, and we cannot seem to get him to use utensils, or drink from a straw.    Our plan is to really tackle this more aggressively in the next few months.  Lets face it folks…it looks weird to be spoon feeding a nearly three year old!  We also continue to try to introduce new foods to him, and he has included taking bites of pancakes and bananas.

As for sleeping…it is still a struggle.  He needs that deep pressure of a body next to him.  So if he doesn’t feel that pressure he wakes up, and won’t go back to sleep without it.  I have found he really LOVES my pregnancy pillow, so this may become his.  It does give him the sensation of having bodies next to him, and may be the calming sense he needs to sleep.

We have more plans for his continuation for his treatment of his delays, but I will keep that for my next update!

**If your child has SPD or Autism I would love to hear from you!  Nothing is better than sharing stories and support in a world where so many just don’t understand!!

 

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Dear Friends…please allow me to explain.

by Mandalyn on May 1, 2012

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I have not posted on my blog in three months!  Yeah, I did get a bit burnt out, and life did become ridiculously crazy as usual.  However, here is my main reason for my absence.

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We got a little surprise in February, and then three months of puking, wanting to puke, back and abdominal pain, horrible OB practice experience, scary ass ER visit, and well exhaustion that cannot be put into any words, other than lock me up in a coffin and that is how dead on my feet I was!  So it was out of desperation to survive that I stepped away from the ol blog.  I just couldn’t put one more thing on my plate of insanity.

Onward to answer some of my most frequently asked questions about this kiddo:

Was this baby planned?  No, this little one was not planned.  He/She was a BIG Whoopsie!  Not to say that I am labeling this baby an unwelcomed accident.  However, I was still focused on getting to my goal weight, and lets face it I have a lot going on already in my life right now.  Initially, I was not a happy mama, as I couldn’t fathom how I would juggle one more kiddo plus everything else.  It didn’t help that this kid has made me sicker and more miserable than Wyatt ever did.  A lot of soul and come to Jesus thinking and I got myself out of my ridiculous funk and embraced it.  God had a reason for this kiddo to be born, if he didn’t our birth control methods would have worked!  So I am thinking the next president is growing in my uterus…and I will be DAMN sure my birth is a public event so no one can dispute the birth certificate…heh heh!

Do you think it is a boy or girl? I am on Team Edward..or Jacob…or any male character in the movie…with the exception of that really annoying male school mate of Bella’s because he is a horrible actor, and doesn’t portray any semblence of a hottie.  A long long long time ago I worked at H & R Block and one of the tax preparers read my palm, she said I would have two boys.  So I am SURE she was right!   Oh wait shit…maybe it was that psychic I saw in college.  Oh crap I don’t know, but one of the ladies with powers from beyond said I would have two boys.  So I MUST be having a boy.  Of course everyone is on Team Bella!  Colby has told me I am bitchier, and well everything with this pregnancy is just different in comparison to Wyatt.  So we will see in about five weeks!

What do you call the little booger?   Well when I was pregnant with Wyatt I called him Lucy…I won’t tell you why because peeps on the internet get all judgy and all.  This one is simply “Deuce” as in #2.  I hesitated at first to use my instinctive nickname as people may be thinking I am awaiting a bowel movement.  However, I like the nickname and it is gonna stick!

What does Wyatt think?  Well he just thinks I am getting fat I think.  I have to be super careful because he has always enjoyed jumping up on me.  Honestly, he doesn’t understand that anything is going on.  He really will just think I am getting fat.

How did you tell your parents? Using a cookbook of my great aunt’s recipes…I inserted a little Grannie P Pie recipe for my mom to see.  She is sooo out of it and didn’t get it.  Even when I said “Bake for 9 month…ahh screw it I am pregnant mom,”

When are you due? October 26th!  Literally right after my birthday…this year for my birthday I will have the gift of a sore vagina.  Exciting right?

Okay…I have said VAGINA so that is the sign to me that I need to probably end my first post of three months!!  Hormones make me say crazy things.

 

 

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